Emily, 17, UK.
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Personal blog with plenty of whiny text posts

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Hey, i saw your post about not going to con.... priority tickets go on sale january time they are definately worth buying. I wouldnt give up on con yet!!!
madeslime

trouble is, I didn’t know I could definitely come until after they sold out, and that’ll probably be my situation again next year so poop

screw this im going to get drunk and pretend im ready for the con on saturday

feeling like you’re gonna have a heart attack like 92% of the time kinda sucks is there anything i can do about this

*virtual text based hugs* :)
onelittledetail

:)

have you considered that maybe your friend hasn't had any experience with autism before? sadly the media and society tends to hide autism away and simply just call it a mental disorder and push it under the rug so its p likely that your friend hasn't had much experience and didn't know how to react? maybe its worth talking to him and explaining things calmly?
Anonymous

scervo:

I did consider that and I repeatedly tried to explain. He just wouldn’t listen like straight up I have tried so hard seriously, I even asked if someone else could explain it better but then that turned into him yelling at me but honestly im still trying i dont think hes doing it on purpose hes just… idk misguided and cant see it

like from my point of view it went:

"hey that thing u said was offensive and it hurt me and it would be cool if you could not say that because of these reasons"

"uh, no it wasnt. how dare you. stop attacking me omg i didnt even say anything bad. repeats bad thing for justification as to why bad thing was okay."

"seriously can you not do that"

"fuck you my opinion is right and as a non-disabled person i am clearly the authority here on what is offensive"

have you considered that maybe your friend hasn't had any experience with autism before? sadly the media and society tends to hide autism away and simply just call it a mental disorder and push it under the rug so its p likely that your friend hasn't had much experience and didn't know how to react? maybe its worth talking to him and explaining things calmly?
Anonymous

I did consider that and I repeatedly tried to explain. He just wouldn’t listen like straight up I have tried so hard seriously, I even asked if someone else could explain it better but then that turned into him yelling at me but honestly im still trying i dont think hes doing it on purpose hes just… idk misguided and cant see it

call me a retard i fuckin dare you

and also for the same reasons like real talk as a queer person i am not offended by that analogy b/c it p much is the same situation tbh at least in america homosexuality actually was classified as a mental disorder for a long time too until people realized they were being shitty by doing so and it's the same kind of "these people dont fit our standards of 'normal' so they must be mentally impaired" kind of bullshit
lydiallama

ThANK yOU

yo friend hey i see youre getting flack about yr situation and i'm real sorry for the way autism is handled in modern society it's kind of disgusting that it's treated as a mental disorder that needs to be "cured" or avoided esp. when there is v little and v sketchy actual science behind the classification but youre really rockin and im sorry youve gotta put up with so much misunderstanding
lydiallama

Side note: Lydia is perfect and I cannot fault anything she’s ever done except maybe not being in love with me

… aaand now im not allowed support. That’s fine.

I rarely do text posts on here…

t-a-l-l:

But it’s a really good feeling when you finally see someone’s true colours and can actually just remove their negativity from your life because sometimes you just need a reality check to see someone for who they actually are

that’s right! I’m autistic! I’m sorry I had to tell you that before you realised how shitty I am.